Posted 4 hours ago

I really wish I read this book before I dated my ex.

Posted 21 hours ago
Posted 1 day ago

reblog if ashley williams


because ashley williams.

Posted 2 days ago

I’m okay with the release date being moved. I wasn’t going to be able to play the game until December anyway, so now I have less time to agonize over it.

Posted 2 days ago


laughing so hard because this is so accurate

Posted 3 days ago


warden: no one else could have been the hero of ferelden

hawke: no one else wanted to be the champion of kirkwall

inquisitior: you guys fucked up thedas and now my hand is all glowy what the fuck guys

Posted 4 days ago


you guys are gross

Posted 4 days ago
Posted 5 days ago
One year my colleagues David and Carole were preparing a skit on abuse for a conference, and they decided to perform a rehearsal for their abuser group. Afterward, the group members rapid-fired their suggestions for improving the skit, directing them mostly at David: “No, no, you don’t make excuses for why you’re home late, that puts you on the defensive, you’ve got to turn it around on her, tell her you know she’s cheating on you….. You’re staying too far away from her, David. Take a couple of steps toward her, so she’ll know that you mean business…. You’re letting her say too much. You’ve got to cut her off and stick to your points.” The counselors were struck by how aware the clients were of the kinds of tactics they use, and why they use them: In the excitement of giving feedback on the skit, the men let down their facade as “out-of-control abuser who doesn’t realize what he’s doing.

“Why Does He Do That” by Lundy Bancroft (via bajo-el-mar)

I really need to read this, Jesus.

(via selfcareafterrape)

Posted 5 days ago

I really wish Sea of Shadows didn’t mention rape and sex slavery so often because the rest of the book is pretty good, but I don’t feel comfortable recommending it.